My bird likes my girlfriend more
We just got a conure like a month ago and the bird is crazy for my girlfriend. He gets paranoid when he is on my shoulder and will jump off of me onto the ground in order to walk to her(when she is in the room... when she isn't around he likes me a lot more). She has become attached and the bird will let her do so many things, like rub its belly, and hug it..
The bird will sit on my shoulder and stuff, but won't ever let me pet its neck, unless it is about to fall asleep. If my 2nd hand(not the hand holding it) goes anywhere near him/her the bird will freak out and run or jump...
She says that birds will usually like women a lot faster than they like men, is this true? I try to spend lots of time doing normal things with it, but am getting anxious to make it like me more.
What should I do, I have probably spent the same amount of time with the bird as her, but it just doesn't like me nearly as much as her.